Your search ends here.
Your search ends here.
Finding “the one” is such an old concept in the emotional game of love and romance. A lot of people buy into the idea that they are destined for one specific person and that their love story is already written for them; they merely must play out their parts. A lot of people will believe in fate and destiny; in the concept of finding a soulmate with whom they can share an eternal bond and connection with. While there is no empirical data or evidence to support the validity of this concept, a lot of people will attest to it being applicable to their lives.
People often describe the experience of meeting “the one” with the most beautiful and flowery words available in the English language. They will swear by the legitimacy and the tangibility of the magic that is there when they meet that one special person. They will use words like magical, enchanting, instant, and comfortable when they describe these experiences. For the most part, no one can say that they’re lying because who would want to deny love?
If you’re the type of hopeless romantic who also believes in finding “the one”, then this article is for you. You just have to remember to be patient and vigilant at all times. When “the one” walks into your life, you can’t afford to be complacent. You always have to make sure that you are doing the right thing to keep that person in your life. You don’t want to miss out on the opportunity to live out the kind of love affair that you’ve always been dreaming of.
So here are a few signs that you can be on the lookout for when you’re trying to determine whether the person you’re dating is “the one”.
1. They allow themselves to be weird around you.
They are their normal selves when they’re around you and they don’t try to hide their personality from you. They want you to see and accept them for who they really are with flaws and imperfections included. They will also see that you are a weird and flawed person and they will accept that about you as well.
2. They support you as you work towards your goals and dreams.
When you’re in a relationship with someone, it shouldn’t serve as a barrier for you to work towards your goals and dreams. In fact, you should be using your relationship to help propel you forward. Your soulmate should be that one person who is always inspiring you to be better and to work harder to achieve all that you want in life.
3. They won’t keep any secrets from you.
Your partner always sees you as an equal and would never take the liberty of concealing any truths from you. They would never ever keep any secrets from you because they know that you always deserve to be treated in a mature manner.
4. They aren’t afraid to mix things up in bed.
A healthy sex life is always a huge bonus when it comes to healthy relationships. Your soulmate is the one for you whenever they act like they’re just willing to go on sexual explorations with you. They shouldn’t be afraid to act silly and vulnerable when they’re making love to you.
5. They will always look out for your best interests.
Your soulmate is also your number one guardian. You always want to have at least one person who is always looking over your shoulder on your behalf. You want that one person who always has your back especially when times get tough. You always want to be able to fall back on that one person you can trust with your life.
6. They would never say no to an opportunity to make you happy.
Your happiness is of utmost importance to that person. They understand that whatever makes you happy will also make them happy in the long run. They never want to see you with a frown on your face. They never want to see you sad or crying.
7. They aren’t afraid to be vulnerable in front of you.
The one way you can truly know that you can trust a person is when they allow themselves to be vulnerable in front of you. When they expose their inner weaknesses to you, it means that they are also willing to trust you. It shows that they know that you would never betray them and that they would also treat you the same way.
8. They always make you feel like you’re having a good time.
The people who are “the one” would always do their part to make you feel comfortable and happy about yourself. They would always have this uncanny ability to uplift your spirits whenever you’re spending time together. It doesn’t even matter whether you’re doing exciting activities or going on lavish trips; as long as you’re together, it’s always a good time.
Source: Relationship Rules
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